i think people get a bit confused, antsy and defensive when the phrase "cultural appropriation" is used. mainly because people tend to get confused, antsy and defensive whenever they're being told off, or realise people might see them as being in the wrong, but there you go

so, let's once and for all define cultural appropriation! and give some examples of things which are cultural appropriation that you might not have realised are, and some examples of things that you might think are, but in fact are not