http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jan/13/have-lost-virginity-sex-google

"Most people understand virginity to mean the first time a person has heterosexual vaginal intercourse, but this is an incredibly narrow vision of human sexuality."

well yeah. whole bunch of people in sexual relationships who've never had a heterosexual experience. are they all virgins? good work if so.

"I’ve suggested in the past that perhaps a person’s first orgasm with a partner should count as losing their virginity."

no, xhamster is not a 'partner'. actually, this might be a bit hrrrm towards people who aren't capable of orgasm, for whatever reason.

this is actually kind of interesting. whether or not virginity 'matters' or not, what does it actually mean in 2016? sexuality is more fluid than ever i understand among the young and exciting people, if that means anything towards this

let's talk about this