Not gonna put #SSP but I'd prefer only serious answers

A couple of months ago I was seeing someone, and lent them a bit of money on the proviso I do get it back. I know that's a bit silly to start, but we have a few mutual friends so I thought it;d be fine, plus I'd lent some before and had it back fine.

Anyway, it hit a bit of a rocky patch, when we arranged to do something couple of times and on the day she didnt reply to messages. Turns out there was a bit of an issue which is unimportant, and we're talking again and everythings fine. However, after the second time of non reply, I sent a message along the lines of 'forget about the money' cause of the lack of response.

Now it's mainly sorted, and we're talking but not seeing each other really , would it be wrong of me to ask again about the money? It's a fair amount

Cheers