thinking about marriage... it is pretty weird that people still really want to get married in 2014. apart from being a really conservative and patriarchal institution to support anyway, i think it's pretty difficult to justify entering into marriage* when so many are still denied the right http://time.com/3208755/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-gay-marriage/ kinda think getting married is ultimately quite a selfish act idk.

(*apart from sham visa marriages. obviously that's an exception)