So, how're you guys? I'm going to watch 'the whole 10 yards'

Riddle me this, a friend is being a nobhead, by screwing over another friend. She is forever telling me about the situation, and he is always sad and asking advice about it. HOW DO I STAY OUT OF IT? I've tried telling them both to leave me out of it, but they keep on being sad and speaking to me. I DON'T WANT TO TAKE SIDES.