or is it just a saying, designed to objectify women, (ditto 'money shot' and 't**w***') sorry to be so stuffy and not 'with it', but i see a lot of terms bandied around and am curious as to whether I should just take it as part of general banter or whether it is really a facet of peoples lives or do they just see this in pron? and think it makes them sound 'adult' to bandy the terms around?

Chastely yours creakyknees

(OK this is phrased awkwardly, but I have never felt at ease with macho banter)