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The awkwardness of wanting to speak to someone at a bus stop because you find them attractive.

GalacticStar3ruption [Edit] [Delete] 09:58, 1 February '08

There is this girl who waits for the same bus as me, in the morning, every weekday before work.
She is really hot and I wan't to say something to her but I get all nervous.
We stand there everyday within a few foot of each other and we haven't said anything, this causes more and more awkwardness over time.
She seems awkward aswell this doesn't meen she likes me but I hope it does.

Anyway the other day when we were on the bus there was a loud bang, it was like part of the bus broke. I had my earphones in but I heard in anyway. The girl in question looked bemused, then turned around towards me (I was sitting a few rows back), she was then about to open her mouth to say something when she must of realised I was listening to music and promptly turned back towards the front of the bus. I was really frustrated because it would of been an ice breaker.

Then I though I could not listen to music while going to work but she would notice this and wonder why I wasn't.

Today I did at least manage to smile at her and she smiled back, I was a little shy about it but there wasn't a excesive amount of awkwardness. She definitely handled the moment better than I did, as I was the one who turned away.

These situations can be so awkward, anyone have any opinions on how I should go about this?

How well do my fellow DiSers deal with situations such as this?


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